Learning to Die: Translation and Commentary

Abstract

In his essay, "Apprendre à mourir" (Learning to Die), the French psychiatrist, psychologist Michel Hanus poses a profound question about the relationship between birth and death. Both are inevitable milestones in the human journey, occurring beyond one's control. Just as no one learns how to be born, growth unfolds naturally, governed by the laws of nature, while care is limited to guidance and protection. But can the same be said of death? Unlike birth, preparing for death is a conscious choice, compelled by our awareness of mortality. Thus, learning to die becomes a process that requires deep reflection and reconciliation—with oneself and with others—to ensure a peaceful departure, free of regret.